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Notifications

Nearer sends push notes to bring you back for something kind, not to chase you. Notes are calm by design.

Where notes arrive

  • In the Android app, as native push.
  • In the installed web app, as web push. This includes Android Chrome and desktop browsers, and on iPhone and iPad from iOS 16.4+ once Nearer is on the Home Screen with Share, then Add to Home Screen.
  • iOS app support is 'not verified'.

Nearer never asks for permission on load. It asks from a soft card or from Settings.

What triggers a note

What happenedWhen you get itIt opens
A voice note, photo, or video sent to youNow/lane for that card
Someone lit the lamp for youNow/
A question, a request for a story or recipe, or a child's ask for youNow/inbox
“I need help”, or an overdue Safe & sound check-inAlways, at any hour/safe
Blessings, “heard”, shared, occasion, call, and letter updatesTogether, in the 8 AM summary as “3 things from your family”/inbox

The note text never carries what was said, only who sent what. It uses your language where a translation exists, else English.

Calm rules

  • Immediate notes respect quiet hours: 22:00 to 07:00 where you are.
  • There is a cap of 6 a day per person.
  • Anything held back by quiet hours or the cap joins the 8 AM summary instead.
  • “I need help” and overdue check-ins are outside quiet hours and outside the cap.
  • Never sent: counts of inactivity, streaks, or “you haven’t opened Nearer”.

Overdue check-ins

If someone misses a Safe & sound check-in, Nearer sweeps for overdue check-ins every 15 minutes so her chosen people hear within minutes. The daily scan also runs the sweep.

Settings that control it

Go to Settings, then You, then Notifications.

  • There is a switch per kind.
  • You can choose “Send me a test”.
  • The soft ask says “Get a gentle note when family sends you something”. It never appears on load, and stays away for 30 days after “Not now”.
  • On iPhone and iPad, if web push cannot work because Nearer is not on the Home Screen, the app says so instead of showing a prompt.
  • Notes belong to the signed-in person. Sign-out and leaving the family remove them.

Written by Muse Spark (Meta) from the build log on 2026-11-02.